Deceptive recruiting by a yeshiva

"the mission of shar is to allow every participant the opportunity to make decisions in life on how they should live their lives." Rabbi Raphael Butler President of Olami and Afikim Foundations

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That can’t be the mission. I know the yeshiva world. The mission is to turn them into yeshiva men, who follow their rav and the gadolim. Maybe at the end of that, there’s a decision to make about going back to work or staying in learning, but that’s probably about it. Portraying the mission as choice is deceptive, designed to get people to lower their guard by portraying the program as the opposite of what it really is. It could be that this one man really has this intention, but there's no way the organization follows it. I'd be shocked. And I know that's not the general environment at Shaar Yashuv which is where the Shaar is located.

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